Welcome to my blog...This is the corner of my world where I can share the adventures of being a La Jolla hairstylist specializing in weddings and styling. You will find inspirational photos of the latest trends in cut/color/styling, and well as little stories here and there from my life. Currently I became a mom Dec. 2015 to the sweetest little boy...He has opened my heart to an enormous love. Thank you for sharing in my adventures.
Jamie and Josh traveled from Oklahoma to get married at the romantic La Valencia Hotel in sunny La Jolla, CA. With its view of palm trees and the Pacific ocean, La Valencia Hotel sets the mood with elegance and 1920's fun! Let the celebration begin as seagulls peek in the window and mimosas are shared with loved ones.
Gail and her daughters share the same radiant smile and bright eyes.
His queen approaches.
Josh and Jaimie I loved being part of your special day! Thank you!
Does your hair sometimes feel dirty even after you wash it?
Do you have to wash your hair often to keep if feeling clean?
A few things could be happening...
1. You might be using way TOO MUCH SHAMPOO. For example <a href="http://www.pureology.com">Pureology</a> has no added water in their concentrated formulas, so to get a good lather you need your hair to be completely wet. I find the best way to use <a href="http://www.pureology.com">Pureology</a> is to add a little shampoo, slightly bigger than dime size to the front and sided, then add water on your head and add a little more shampoo to the scalp. Or, wash twice. On the second wash you will notice a rich lather.
2. NOT RINSING WELL... The best way to rinse is to start with warm water... rinse...Then turn it a little cooler...rinse until you can feel it on your scalp....Then turn it a little cooler and repeat. And finally cold until you can feel it on the scalp. Not only does it help ensure your rinsing your hair of shampoo residue, the cold water shuts the hair cuticle leaving your hair shinier.
3. WRONG SHAMPOO... Some shampoos have too much protein that can build up in the hair. The first few times your hair will look and feel great, but after a while your hair won't feel clean. Sometimes it can even feel brittle. A clarifying shampoo is recommended once a week to exfoliate the hair and remove build up from shampoo, product, and the environment. This can be done 2 weeks after color treatment. After you clarify use the shampoo of your choice to restore moisture.
Clarifying shampoo are generally clear. Hydrating shapes are typically not see through.
Pureology and other high end shampoos can actually improve the texture and appearance of your hair by reducing flyaway/frizz, volumizing, taming curls, improving dry scalp, brightening highlights, and softening texture.
4. WASHING TOO OFTEN... Every hair type is different. Some people with very fine hair need to wash daily to give volume to the hair and prevent it from being greasy and flat. People who work out need to wash their hair due to sweat making the hair look and feel dirty. In the ideal situation you would wash your hair every 2-4 days. Washing too often can cause your scalp to over produce oil. When you remove the oil your scalp wants to create that barrier again protecting your scalp, so it can begin to over produce oil.
NOTE ON SPECIAL OCCASION HAIR
If you are getting your hair done for a special occasion it is best to come with clean, completely dry hair. Dry shampoo can be used to absorb oil, but for your hair to look it's best it should be clean.. The biggest reason stylists tell you to come with day old hair is because too often clients show up for special occasion hair with damp or wet hair. Your hair MUST BE COMPLETELY DRY for curls to hold. Flat ironing is also a bad idea before you are getting your hair professionally curled. If you think of it like clothing, after a crease is ironed into pants it is hard to completely iron it out or change the pleat. It is best to rewet clothes or hair to change the texture. A simple blowout is like the clothes dryer it will leave your texture nice but not as polished or lasting as an iron.
I've found it's hard to feel like you look put together as a mom and HOT! This is what I find when I google "mom hair" ... Aside from Eva Longoria and Emma Stone I don't find these hairstyles to be...HOT.
We are looking for ways to SAVE TIME, be STRONG, be FEMININE.
These 3 styles are for hot mammas.
SHORT HAIR saves time day to day, but does require more frequent visits to the salon to maintain the shape of the cut and prevent a mullet.
PONYTAIL is strong, no fuss, and with a little effort can be a great go to style. If you're battling tiny hairs sticking out I suggest either spraying a light hold hairspray on the sides only (not the top to prevent 90's ponytail). Or, use a light wax in the roots before creating ponytail.
LOOSE WAVES and BANGS is feminine. With dry shampoo added on day 2,3 possibly 4 this style can last days without rewashing/styling. First you must wash your hair with clarifying shampoo then your regular shampoo (hydrate or volume) 2 shampoos make the style last longer by removing all the build up. Then blow-dry your hair for a more finished texture and to prevent oil from building at the roots. Then iron curl your hair. This style takes more time 2-3 times a week, but you can go longer between salon visits when it's hard to get away from the house.
I am now experiencing first hand how it feels to have thinning hair. When I was 30 I got a tight perm so I could become experienced with curly hair, now at 35 I am learning what it's like to work with my own thinning hair. I've seen hair fall out for many clients over my 10 years as a hairdresser.and I've seen hair grow back too.
I've seen thinning due to http://www.whattoexpect.com/pregnancy/symptoms-and-solutions/postpartum-hair-loss.aspx
">post pregnancy like mine now, chemo therapy, age, medication, surgery, lupus (autoimmune disorders), diet, hair twirling, and most commonly STRESS. In all of these cases I've seen hair bounce back, even with my client in her late 70's. So, I know this is temporary for me...I hope...
Even though I know my hair should eventually stop falling out by the handful, I am still afraid. When I run my hands through my wet hair clumps wrap around my fingers and cover my body. It's horrible. My hair loss makes me feel unattractive, helpless, insecure, and sad.
A beautiful client of mine said "It's okay for a man to be Q-ball bald, but it's never okay for a woman". She has lupus and is in a phase where new growth is coming in and her hair is full, but she knows the emotional pain of thinning hair.
As a hairdresser for men and women I know men hate it too, but it's much more accepted. While men try a few shampoos and medications they will stop if they feel there are any side effects. Men generally have a back and forth relationship with trying different methods to stop their hair loss as they age. Women on the other hand... We OBSESS over it. We will try everything: medicine, vitamins, Ovation Cell Therapy, color, thickening products, extensions, wigs, accessories, styling options. I mean we try EVERYTHING!
So, here is what I'm doing to stay hot!!
1.WASH YOUR HAIR LESS. For me, the most hair loss is during washing and brushing the hair. Use dry shampoo and wash your hair once or twice a week tops. I know it looks better clean, but if you can stretch it even every other day you’ll retain more hair throughout the shedding period while your hormones are leveling out. REST ASSURED YOUR HAIR WILL GROW BACK!!
2.CHANGE YOUR PART… If you part in the middle sweep from side or back. Cover as much of the head with the longer hair.. Not a combover.. but kind of… Also a jagged part distracts from thinning compared to a straight part.
3. BLOW DRY WITH THICKENING SPRAY at the part in the front at the roots or wherever you’d like to disguise thinning. You don’t need to blow dry all of your hair if you don’t have time. But, if you blow dry the root with THICKENING SPRAY it will look fuller. Use heat to activate the product.
4. CURLS/WAVES use a curling,flat iron or rollers... waves make the hair look fuller because they take up more space than when the hair lies flat or straight.
5. TEASE AND PIN.. One of my favorites ways to add volume is to tease the top so there is no part just a ponytail. Make sure you use a fine mist of hairspray at the sides to give a more polished look and hide the flyaway. Don’t spray the top only the sides near the ear.. This avoids the 80’s slick ponytail.
6. We pencil in our eye brows right? So, Why not PENCIL/SHADE/DUST the scalp with matte makeup. The hair appears thicker when a light scalp isn’t showing through.
7. SCARVES/HEADBANDS/ HATS…..this will help in the meantime…YOUR HAIR WILL GROW BACK.